Kolade and Titilayo Arowol 'my opinion'

‘BOTH OF THEM ARE HOT-TEMPERED’.PARENTS OF KOLADE,WHO WAS ALLEGED TO HAVE MURDERED AND MUTILATED HIS WIFE'

This excuse to some may look very annoying and unacceptable to why a man should kill his wife but if we take a second look at the scenario surrounding this story, then we will agree with the parent of the culprit that the truth is not far fetched from this statement.

I am of the opinion that neither kolade nor titilayo were saints. from the stories and pictures that we have seen of the incident, i strongly want to believe that they were both fighting and each one of them had a knife. i stand to be corrected but can anyone tell me, which man would kill a wife who happens to be the his source of lively hood, pays all the bills and at the same time submissive? put yourself in kolade's position, can you ever raise your hand against a woman who according to the stories we've been feed, puts food on your table, clothe you and even split her salary equally amongs the two of you and at the same time, respects and pamper you like she will do if you are the breadwinner of the house? 

women, let us face the facts here, please let's learn not to always upset our husbands, there is always a limit to what we can tolerate individually, i believe this issue is a two sided coin, in as much as i as a woman detest any man raising his hands against a woman, we woman should also learn to put caution in all dat we do. some women can frustrate even an angel, nagging to a whole lot of us is like a second skin, and to cap it all, is this gender equality nonsense that has turned most of us to Lords forgetting that we are created to be a helpmate to our men and not the other way round. Even if we are opportune to be the bread winner of the house, that should not make us uncontrollable and inaccessible. 

TITILAYO OMOZOJE continue to rest in the bossom of the lord. My advice is not to the dead but to the living so that situations like this won't happen again.